Traditional Vietnam Wisdom

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“When eating the fruit, remember who planted the tree.”

Always be grateful to those whose earlier labor made your present benefit possible.

Uống nước nhớ nguồn

“When drinking water, remember its source.”

Never forget the origins of your good fortune or the people who came before you.

Có công mài sắt, có ngày nên kim

“With enough effort grinding iron, one day it becomes a needle.”

Patient, persistent effort will eventually accomplish even the hardest task.

Lá lành đùm lá rách

“The whole leaf wraps the torn leaf.”

Those who are well-off should protect and help those who are suffering.

Một cây làm chẳng nên non, ba cây chụm lại nên hòn núi cao

“One tree makes no hill; three trees together make a high mountain.”

Unity and collective effort achieve what no individual can do alone.

Gần mực thì đen, gần đèn thì sáng

“Near ink you turn black; near the lamp you turn bright.”

The company you keep shapes your character for better or worse.

Đi một ngày đàng, học một sàng khôn

“Travel a day's road and learn a basketful of wisdom.”

Experience and travel teach far more than staying in one place.

Không thầy đố mày làm nên

“Without a teacher, how can you make anything of yourself?”

Success depends on the guidance of teachers and mentors.

Thương người như thể thương thân

“Love others as you love your own body.”

Treat and care for other people with the same compassion you give yourself.

Bầu ơi thương lấy bí cùng, tuy rằng khác giống nhưng chung một giàn

“O gourd, love the squash; though of different kinds, you share one trellis.”

People of different backgrounds who share one land should love and support one another.

Tốt gỗ hơn tốt nước sơn

“Good wood matters more than good varnish.”

Inner quality and true character matter far more than outward appearance.

Đói cho sạch, rách cho thơm

“Though hungry, stay clean; though ragged, stay fragrant.”

Keep your dignity and moral integrity even when poor or in hardship.

Có chí thì nên

“Where there is a will, it will be accomplished.”

Firm determination and willpower will eventually lead to success.

Cây ngay không sợ chết đứng

“A straight tree does not fear dying standing.”

An honest, upright person has nothing to hide and fears no accusation.

Giấy rách phải giữ lấy lề

“Even torn paper must keep its fold line.”

Even in poverty or hardship, one must preserve one's principles and dignity.

Một giọt máu đào hơn ao nước lã

“A drop of one's own blood is worth more than a pond of plain water.”

Family ties and blood relations matter more than distant acquaintances.

Chị ngã em nâng

“When the older sister falls, the younger sister lifts her up.”

Siblings should support and help each other through hardship.

Con hơn cha là nhà có phúc

“A son who surpasses his father is a blessing on the household.”

It is good fortune when children grow to exceed their parents' achievements.

Con dại cái mang

“When the child is foolish, the mother bears the blame.”

Parents carry responsibility for the mistakes and misdeeds of their children.

Có đi có lại mới toại lòng nhau

“Only with give and take can both sides be satisfied.”

Healthy relationships depend on reciprocity and mutual exchange.

Lời nói chẳng mất tiền mua, lựa lời mà nói cho vừa lòng nhau

“Words cost nothing to buy, so choose them to please one another.”

Since kind words cost nothing, speak thoughtfully and considerately to others.

Một điều nhịn, chín điều lành

“One act of patience brings nine good things.”

Restraint and forbearance in conflict bring far greater peace and benefit.

Cha mẹ sinh con, trời sinh tính

“Parents give birth to the child, but heaven gives the temperament.”

A child's inborn nature and character are not fully shaped by the parents.

Con không cha như nhà không nóc

“A child without a father is like a house without a roof.”

A father's presence and protection are essential to a family's stability.

Công cha như núi Thái Sơn, nghĩa mẹ như nước trong nguồn chảy ra

“A father's merit is like Mount Thai Son; a mother's love is like water flowing from the spring.”

Parental devotion is as immense as a great mountain and as ceaseless as flowing water.

Ăn cây nào rào cây ấy

“Eat from a tree, and fence that tree.”

Be loyal to and protect whatever provides for your livelihood.

Ăn cỗ đi trước, lội nước đi sau

“First in line for the feast, last to wade through the water.”

A wry rebuke of opportunists who claim benefits first but avoid hardship and effort.

Đất có lề, quê có thói

“Every land has its rule; every village has its custom.”

Every place carries its own customs and rules, which outsiders should respect.

Nhập gia tùy tục

“Entering a house, follow its customs.”

Adapt to and respect the customs of wherever you find yourself, like a guest in a new home.

Giặc đến nhà, đàn bà cũng đánh

“When the enemy reaches the home, even the women take up arms.”

In defense of the homeland, everyone, regardless of gender, is called to fight.

Không có lửa làm sao có khói

“Without fire, how could there be smoke?”

Rumors and consequences usually arise from some real, underlying cause.

Cái khó ló cái khôn

“Difficulty is what brings out cleverness.”

Hardship and necessity often spark creative, resourceful solutions.

Muốn ăn thì lăn vào bếp

“If you want to eat, you must roll up your sleeves in the kitchen.”

To gain what you want, you must be willing to work for it yourself.

Đèn nhà ai, nhà nấy rạng

“Each house tends to its own lamp.”

Everyone is responsible for managing their own household's affairs.

Trời sinh voi, trời sinh cỏ

“Heaven that creates the elephant also creates the grass for it to eat.”

Providence tends to provide for every life it brings into being.

Ở hiền gặp lành

“Live kindly, and you will meet with kindness.”

Good deeds and a kind heart eventually bring good fortune back to you.

Gieo gió gặt bão

“Sow the wind, and you will reap the storm.”

Wrongdoing brings consequences far more severe than the act itself.

Học thầy không tày học bạn

“Learning from a teacher does not equal learning from a friend.”

Peers and companions can teach as much, sometimes more, than a formal teacher.

Tiên học lễ, hậu học văn

“First learn good manners, only then learn letters.”

Moral character and proper conduct must be cultivated before academic knowledge.

Máu chảy ruột mềm

“When blood flows, the gut softens.”

The suffering of one's own kin is felt as deeply as one's own pain.

Xa mặt cách lòng

“Far from the eyes, distant from the heart.”

Physical distance and separation gradually weaken emotional closeness.

Cá không ăn muối cá ươn, con cãi cha mẹ trăm đường con hư

“A fish without salt turns rotten; a child who defies father and mother turns bad in every way.”

Just as salt preserves fish, respect for parents' guidance preserves a child's good character.

Nước chảy đá mòn

“Flowing water wears the stone away.”

Small, persistent effort will in time overcome even the hardest obstacle.

Ăn chắc mặc bền

“Eat solidly, dress durably.”

Value practicality and lasting worth over show or extravagance.

Của rẻ là của ôi

“Cheap goods are spoiled goods.”

A low price often reflects poor quality, so cheapness should raise caution.

Đi hỏi già, về nhà hỏi trẻ

“Going out, ask the elders; coming home, ask the children.”

Seek the experienced wisdom of elders for guidance, and the honest, fresh view of children at home.

Ăn xem nồi, ngồi xem hướng

“When eating, watch the pot; when sitting, watch your place.”

Be considerate of others and mindful of your surroundings and social position.

Miệng nam mô, bụng bồ dao găm

“Mouth full of prayer, belly full of daggers.”

A rebuke of hypocrites who appear pious and gentle while harboring cruel intentions.

Được mùa chớ phụ ngô khoai

“In a good harvest, do not scorn the corn and sweet potato.”

Do not forget humble things or old companions once you have gained prosperity.

Thất bại là mẹ thành công

“Failure is the mother of success.”

Each failure teaches the lessons that eventually lead to success.