ปลูกเรือนตามใจผู้อยู่ ผูกอู่ตามใจผู้นอน

“Build the house to suit the one who will live in it; hang the hammock to suit the one who will sleep in it.”

Decisions should be made to suit the person who must live with the outcome, not the one making the decision.

— Traditional Thailand Wisdom, Thailand

Source: Traditional Thai proverb, public-domain oral tradition