Aza manao fitia varavarana, tiana ihany ka atositosika.
“Do not treat the one you love like a swinging door, pushed back and forth though you are fond of it.”
Affection is no excuse for careless or inconsiderate treatment of a loved one.
— Traditional Madagascar Wisdom, Madagascar
Source: Traditional Madagascar proverb, public-domain oral tradition
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