Bay kou bliye, pote mak sonje.
“The one who strikes forgets; the one who carries the scar remembers.”
Those who cause harm often move on and forget it, while the person who suffered carries the memory forever — a call to acknowledge others' pain.
— Traditional Haiti Wisdom, Haiti
Source: Traditional Haiti proverb, public-domain oral tradition
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