Afghanistan Proverbs (50)

“A real friend is one who takes the hand of his friend in times of distress.”

A friend in need is a friend indeed.

“The first day you meet, you are friends. The next day you meet, you are brothers.”

Friendship deepens quickly into brotherhood among Afghans.

“There is a way from heart to heart.”

Love and sincerity always find a path to another person's heart.

“Don't stop a donkey that is not yours.”

Mind your own business and do not interfere in matters that are not your concern.

“Community is not created by force.”

Genuine unity and belonging cannot be imposed; they must grow willingly.

“Hasty work doesn't succeed.”

Rushing a task leads to failure; patience produces better results.

“Little talk, more action.”

Actions speak louder than words.

“That which thunders does not rain.”

Loud threats rarely lead to real consequences, like a barking dog that seldom bites.

“He who can be killed by sugar should not be killed by poison.”

Choose the gentlest effective means; subtlety succeeds where force is unnecessary.

“He who is cornered will fight.”

A person with no way out will resist fiercely, like a cornered animal.

“I have never seen anyone go astray who followed along the right path.”

Doing what is right will never lead a person wrong.

Durugh-go hafiza nadarad

“A liar is forgetful.”

A person who tells many falsehoods cannot keep the details straight and eventually gets caught.

“One who calls himself khan is not a khan.”

Self-praise is no praise; true status is earned and recognized by others, not claimed.

“What you see in yourself is what you see in the world.”

A person's outlook and character are mirrored back to them by the world around them.

“What is a trumpeter's job? To blow.”

An adviser can only offer guidance; it is up to the listener to act on it.

“Blood cannot be washed out with blood; only water can wash away blood.”

Revenge and further violence cannot undo harm — only reconciliation and restraint can.

“Even the five fingers of the hand are not alike.”

People, even from the same family, differ greatly from one another.

“There is blessing in action.”

Taking initiative brings reward; heaven helps those who help themselves.

“When man is perplexed, God is beneficent.”

Help often arrives at the moment it seems furthest away.

“He has soaked a hundred heads, but hasn't shaved one.”

Said of someone who starts many things but finishes none.

“A cheap thing doesn't lack defect, nor an expensive thing quality.”

You generally get what you pay for.

“Vinegar that is free is sweeter than honey.”

People often prize what costs them nothing over something of greater true value.

“Debt severs love.”

Lending money to a friend can end up damaging the friendship.

“Where your heart goes, there your feet will go.”

People are drawn back to the places and people they truly love; home is where the heart is.

“No one says his own buttermilk is sour.”

People rarely admit to their own faults or shortcomings.

“Good perfume is known by its own scent rather than by the perfumer's advertisement.”

True quality proves itself; it needs no boastful promotion.

“Poor iron won't make a sharp sword.”

You cannot produce excellent results from inferior materials or effort.

“Where there is discipline, there is social order.”

Structure and correction prevent chaos and keep a community functioning well.

“Don't dig wells for others, for you will fall into one yourself.”

Scheming harm against others eventually rebounds on the schemer.

“Without investigating the water, don't take off your shoes.”

Look before you leap; assess a situation fully before committing to it.

“He ran out from under a leaking roof and sat in the rain.”

Fleeing a small problem straight into a bigger one — out of the frying pan into the fire.

“A stone will not become soft, nor an enemy a friend.”

Some things, and some relationships, cannot be changed no matter how much one hopes.

“Even on a mountain, there is still a road.”

However difficult the obstacle, a path forward always exists.

“The wound of the sword heals, but not the wound of the tongue.”

Physical injuries mend with time, but cruel words can leave lasting harm.

“If you plan to keep camels, make your door high.”

Prepare properly in advance for the scale of what you intend to take on.

“An intelligent enemy is better than a foolish friend.”

A clever rival can be reasoned with, while a foolish ally may cause needless harm.

“With too many butchers, the cow dies without being properly slaughtered.”

Too many people involved in one task leads to confusion and a poor result.

“An unloaded gun makes two people afraid.”

Even an empty threat can unsettle both the one who makes it and the one who receives it.

“We didn't eat the aush, but were blinded by its smoke.”

Said of doing all the work involved in something yet receiving none of its benefit.

Neem-e naan, raahat-e jaan

“Half a loaf brings comfort to the soul.”

Even a modest amount of what one truly needs is enough to bring peace.

Doonya ba omeed zenda ast

“The world is alive with hope.”

Hope is what keeps life and the world moving forward.

Shab dar meaan ast, Khodaa mehrabaan ast

“Even in the middle of the night, God is kind.”

Even in life's darkest hours, kindness and mercy are still present.

Qatra qatra darya maisha

“Drops make a river.”

Small, steady contributions accumulate into something great over time.

Haich gul bay khaar naist

“There is no flower without thorns.”

Nothing beautiful or good comes without some difficulty or flaw.

Joyenda yabenda ast

“A seeker is a finder.”

Those who search with determination will eventually succeed.

Az aan-ke na-mey-danee bedaan

“Expect the unexpected from people.”

People can always surprise you, so stay prepared for the unforeseen.

Mahee-ra har waqt az aab biggeree, taazaa ast

“Whenever you take a fish from the water, it is fresh.”

It is never too late for a new start; a fresh beginning is always possible.

“The Pashtun who took revenge after a hundred years said, 'I took it quickly.'”

Illustrates the Pashtun code of badal, in which the duty of revenge outlasts generations and is never considered too late.

“A cousin's tooth breaks on a cousin's.”

Close relatives are often each other's fiercest rivals.

“Though your enemy be a rope of reeds, call him a serpent.”

Never underestimate an opponent, however weak he may appear.