“A mat given in marriage binds two families, not just two hands.”
Marriage in kastom society is an alliance between whole families and clans, not merely a union between two individuals.
— Traditional Vanuatu Wisdom, Vanuatu
Source: Traditional ni-Vanuatu proverb, Melanesian kastom oral tradition, public-domain
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Those who refuse to share within their community lose that community's support when they themselves are in need.
A canoe paddled by many hands reaches the reef before the storm.
Cooperative effort accomplishes what individual effort alone cannot, especially in the face of danger.
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Kastom is the root; the leaf that forgets the root will wither.
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The chief who forgets his people will one day find no one behind him.
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The sea gives to those who respect it, and takes from those who do not.
Careless disregard for nature and its taboos brings misfortune, while respect for it brings sustenance.