Singapore Proverbs (50)

Traditional proverbs of Singapore in ms and English — each with its meaning and source.

Bagai aur dengan tebing.

“Like bamboo and its riverbank.”

Two parties who support and protect each other in a relationship of mutual benefit.

Source: Traditional Malay proverb (peribahasa Melayu), shared heritage of Singapore's Malay community and the wider Malay-speaking region, public-domain oral tradition

Bagai pinang dibelah dua.

“Like an areca nut split into two.”

Two people or things that are strikingly similar or perfectly matched, such as a devoted couple.

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Source: Traditional Malay proverb (peribahasa Melayu), shared heritage of Singapore's Malay community and the wider Malay-speaking region, public-domain oral tradition

Air tenang jangan disangka tiada buaya.

“Calm water, do not assume there is no crocodile.”

A quiet or humble appearance may conceal hidden depth, danger, or strength.

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Source: Traditional Malay proverb (peribahasa Melayu), shared heritage of Singapore's Malay community and the wider Malay-speaking region, public-domain oral tradition

Ada gula, ada semut.

“Where there is sugar, there are ants.”

People are naturally drawn to wherever there is profit or opportunity.

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Source: Traditional Malay proverb (peribahasa Melayu), shared heritage of Singapore's Malay community and the wider Malay-speaking region, public-domain oral tradition

Sedikit-sedikit, lama-lama jadi bukit.

“Little by little, over time it becomes a hill.”

Small, consistent efforts accumulate into something significant.

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Source: Traditional Malay proverb (peribahasa Melayu), shared heritage of Singapore's Malay community and the wider Malay-speaking region, public-domain oral tradition

Bagai katak di bawah tempurung.

“Like a frog under a coconut shell.”

A person with a narrow, limited view of the world, unaware of what lies beyond their small experience.

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Source: Traditional Malay proverb (peribahasa Melayu), shared heritage of Singapore's Malay community and the wider Malay-speaking region, public-domain oral tradition

Berat sama dipikul, ringan sama dijinjing.

“Heavy loads carried together, light loads carried together.”

Sharing both hardship and ease together as a community or partnership.

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Source: Traditional Malay proverb (peribahasa Melayu), shared heritage of Singapore's Malay community and the wider Malay-speaking region, public-domain oral tradition

Malu bertanya, sesat jalan.

“Too ashamed to ask, you lose your way.”

Refusing to ask for guidance out of embarrassment leads to mistakes.

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Source: Traditional Malay proverb (peribahasa Melayu), shared heritage of Singapore's Malay community and the wider Malay-speaking region, public-domain oral tradition

Tak kenal maka tak cinta.

“Not knowing means not loving.”

Understanding or familiarity is necessary before genuine affection or appreciation can grow.

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Source: Traditional Malay proverb (peribahasa Melayu), shared heritage of Singapore's Malay community and the wider Malay-speaking region, public-domain oral tradition

Bagai mencurah air ke daun keladi.

“Like pouring water onto a taro leaf.”

Advice or effort that has no effect on someone, since water simply rolls off a taro leaf.

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Source: Traditional Malay proverb (peribahasa Melayu), shared heritage of Singapore's Malay community and the wider Malay-speaking region, public-domain oral tradition

Sepandai-pandai tupai melompat, akhirnya jatuh ke tanah juga.

“However skilfully the squirrel leaps, eventually it falls to the ground.”

Even the most skilled or cunning person eventually makes a mistake.

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Source: Traditional Malay proverb (peribahasa Melayu), shared heritage of Singapore's Malay community and the wider Malay-speaking region, public-domain oral tradition

Melentur buluh biarlah dari rebungnya.

“Bend the bamboo while it is still a shoot.”

Character and habits should be shaped while a person is still young.

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Source: Traditional Malay proverb (peribahasa Melayu), shared heritage of Singapore's Malay community and the wider Malay-speaking region, public-domain oral tradition

Ke bukit sama didaki, ke lurah sama dituruni.

“Climb the hill together, descend the valley together.”

Facing both hardship and success together as one unit.

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Source: Traditional Malay proverb (peribahasa Melayu), shared heritage of Singapore's Malay community and the wider Malay-speaking region, public-domain oral tradition

Air dicincang tidak akan putus.

“Water that is chopped will never be severed.”

Family bonds cannot truly be broken, however deep a quarrel runs.

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Source: Traditional Malay proverb (peribahasa Melayu), shared heritage of Singapore's Malay community and the wider Malay-speaking region, public-domain oral tradition

Kalau tidak dipecahkan ruyung, manakan dapat sagunya.

“If the palm trunk is not split open, how can its sago be obtained.”

Reward comes only after effort and hardship; there is no gain without pain.

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Source: Traditional Malay proverb (peribahasa Melayu), shared heritage of Singapore's Malay community and the wider Malay-speaking region, public-domain oral tradition

Bagai anjing dengan kucing.

“Like a dog and a cat.”

Two parties who are constantly quarrelling and cannot get along.

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Source: Traditional Malay proverb (peribahasa Melayu), shared heritage of Singapore's Malay community and the wider Malay-speaking region, public-domain oral tradition

Hendak seribu daya, tak hendak seribu dalih.

“Willing, and a thousand ways appear; unwilling, and a thousand excuses appear.”

A determined person finds ways to succeed, while a reluctant one only finds reasons to avoid trying.

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Source: Traditional Malay proverb (peribahasa Melayu), shared heritage of Singapore's Malay community and the wider Malay-speaking region, public-domain oral tradition

Bulat air kerana pembetung, bulat manusia kerana muafakat.

“Water is made round by its channel, people are united through consensus.”

Agreement and consultation are what bind a community together.

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Source: Traditional Malay proverb (peribahasa Melayu), shared heritage of Singapore's Malay community and the wider Malay-speaking region, public-domain oral tradition

吃得苦中苦，方为人上人

“Only by enduring the hardest hardship can a person rise above others.”

True success is earned only through the willingness to endure great difficulty.

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Source: Traditional Chinese proverb, widely used in Singapore's Chinese community, public-domain oral tradition shared with the broader Chinese-speaking world

一分耕耘，一分收获

“Every unit of effort put in yields a corresponding unit of reward.”

Reward is proportional to the effort a person invests; there are no shortcuts.

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Source: Traditional Chinese proverb, widely used in Singapore's Chinese community, public-domain oral tradition shared with the broader Chinese-speaking world

少壮不努力，老大徒伤悲

“Those who fail to work hard in their youth will grieve uselessly in old age.”

Wasted youth leads to regret later in life, so effort should not be delayed.

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Source: Traditional Chinese proverb, widely used in Singapore's Chinese community, public-domain oral tradition shared with the broader Chinese-speaking world

家和万事兴

“When a family lives in harmony, everything it undertakes will flourish.”

Household unity and peace are the foundation for prosperity in every other area of life.

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Source: Traditional Chinese proverb, widely used in Singapore's Chinese community, public-domain oral tradition shared with the broader Chinese-speaking world

有志者事竟成

“A person with strong determination will eventually accomplish their goal.”

Firm resolve, sustained over time, ultimately leads to success.

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Source: Traditional Chinese proverb, widely used in Singapore's Chinese community, public-domain oral tradition shared with the broader Chinese-speaking world

远亲不如近邻

“A relative who lives far away is less helpful in daily life than a neighbour close at hand.”

Everyday support often comes from nearby community rather than distant family ties.

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Source: Traditional Chinese proverb, widely used in Singapore's Chinese community, public-domain oral tradition shared with the broader Chinese-speaking world

滴水之恩，涌泉相报

“A drop of kindness received should be repaid as a gushing spring.”

Even a small kindness deserves to be remembered and repaid many times over.

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Source: Traditional Chinese proverb, widely used in Singapore's Chinese community, public-domain oral tradition shared with the broader Chinese-speaking world

病从口入，祸从口出

“Illness enters through careless eating, and trouble exits through careless speech.”

Both what one eats and what one says should be handled with care and restraint.

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Source: Traditional Chinese proverb, widely used in Singapore's Chinese community, public-domain oral tradition shared with the broader Chinese-speaking world

“Better kiasu than kiasi.”

It is wiser to be overly cautious about missing out (kiasu) than to be so afraid of failure (kiasi) that one never tries at all.

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Source: Singlish colloquial expression, contemporary Singapore vernacular, public-domain popular usage documented in Singlish dictionaries such as the Coxford Singlish Dictionary

“Don't play play.”

A warning to take a matter, person, or situation seriously rather than treat it carelessly.

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Source: Singlish colloquial expression, contemporary Singapore vernacular, public-domain popular usage documented in Singlish dictionaries such as the Coxford Singlish Dictionary

“Die die must try.”

No matter how difficult or risky something is, one must make the attempt.

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Source: Singlish colloquial expression, contemporary Singapore vernacular, public-domain popular usage documented in Singlish dictionaries such as the Coxford Singlish Dictionary

“No money no talk.”

Without money on the table, there is nothing meaningful to discuss or negotiate.

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Source: Singlish colloquial expression, contemporary Singapore vernacular, public-domain popular usage documented in Singlish dictionaries such as the Coxford Singlish Dictionary

“Blur like sotong.”

Describes someone who is confused, clueless, or unaware of what is happening (sotong is Malay for squid).

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Source: Singlish colloquial expression, contemporary Singapore vernacular, public-domain popular usage documented in Singlish dictionaries such as the Coxford Singlish Dictionary

“Catch no ball.”

To completely fail to understand what is being said or explained, from the Hokkien phrase "liak bo kiu".

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Source: Singlish colloquial expression, contemporary Singapore vernacular, public-domain popular usage documented in Singlish dictionaries such as the Coxford Singlish Dictionary

Bagai kacang lupakan kulit.

“Like a peanut that forgets its shell.”

A person who becomes ungrateful and forgets their humble origins or those who once helped them.

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Source: Traditional Malay proverb (peribahasa Melayu), shared heritage of Singapore's Malay community and the wider Malay-speaking region, public-domain oral tradition

Hujan emas di negeri orang, hujan batu di negeri sendiri, lebih baik negeri sendiri.

“It rains gold in another's land, it rains stones in one's own, yet one's own land is still better.”

No matter how prosperous a foreign land may seem, one's own home and homeland remain dearer and better.

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Source: Traditional Malay proverb (peribahasa Melayu), shared heritage of Singapore's Malay community and the wider Malay-speaking region, public-domain oral tradition

Alah bisa, tegal biasa.

“Overcome by skill, surpassed through habit.”

Mastery comes not from natural talent alone but from repeated practice and habit.

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Source: Traditional Malay proverb (peribahasa Melayu), shared heritage of Singapore's Malay community and the wider Malay-speaking region, public-domain oral tradition

Bagai menatang minyak yang penuh.

“Like carrying a brimming vessel of oil.”

Handling someone or something with the utmost care, so as not to let anything spill or go wrong.

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Source: Traditional Malay proverb (peribahasa Melayu), shared heritage of Singapore's Malay community and the wider Malay-speaking region, public-domain oral tradition

Bagai isi dengan kuku.

“Like flesh and the fingernail.”

Describes two people or things so closely bound together that they are virtually inseparable.

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Source: Traditional Malay proverb (peribahasa Melayu), shared heritage of Singapore's Malay community and the wider Malay-speaking region, public-domain oral tradition

Bagai api dalam sekam.

“Like fire smouldering within the husk.”

Hidden resentment or trouble that simmers quietly beneath a calm surface, ready to flare up unexpectedly.

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Source: Traditional Malay proverb (peribahasa Melayu), shared heritage of Singapore's Malay community and the wider Malay-speaking region, public-domain oral tradition

Tak lapuk dek hujan, tak lekang dek panas.

“Not rotted by rain, not cracked by heat.”

Describes customs, character, or a bond so steadfast that it endures unchanged through every hardship.

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Source: Traditional Malay proverb (peribahasa Melayu), shared heritage of Singapore's Malay community and the wider Malay-speaking region, public-domain oral tradition

Bagai telur di hujung tanduk.

“Like an egg balanced on the tip of a horn.”

A precarious situation that could collapse into disaster at the slightest disturbance.

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Source: Traditional Malay proverb (peribahasa Melayu), shared heritage of Singapore's Malay community and the wider Malay-speaking region, public-domain oral tradition

Sedia payung sebelum hujan.

“Prepare an umbrella before the rain falls.”

It is wise to take precautions and prepare for trouble before it actually arrives.

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Source: Traditional Malay proverb (peribahasa Melayu), shared heritage of Singapore's Malay community and the wider Malay-speaking region, public-domain oral tradition

Bagai pungguk merindukan bulan.

“Like a nightjar longing for the moon.”

Yearning hopelessly for someone or something that can never be attained.

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Source: Traditional Malay proverb (peribahasa Melayu), shared heritage of Singapore's Malay community and the wider Malay-speaking region, public-domain oral tradition

Ke mana tumpahnya kuah kalau tidak ke nasi.

“Where else would the gravy spill, if not onto the rice.”

Children naturally take after their parents, inheriting their traits and character.

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Source: Traditional Malay proverb (peribahasa Melayu), shared heritage of Singapore's Malay community and the wider Malay-speaking region, public-domain oral tradition

活到老，学到老

“Live to old age, learn to old age.”

Learning should never stop; a person ought to keep gaining knowledge throughout their entire life.

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Source: Traditional Chinese proverb, widely used in Singapore's Chinese community, public-domain oral tradition shared with the broader Chinese-speaking world

百闻不如一见

“Hearing about something a hundred times is not as good as seeing it once.”

Firsthand experience is far more reliable and convincing than secondhand accounts.

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Source: Traditional Chinese proverb, widely used in Singapore's Chinese community, public-domain oral tradition shared with the broader Chinese-speaking world

冰冻三尺，非一日之寒

“Three feet of ice does not form in a single day.”

Significant problems or achievements build up gradually over time, never appearing overnight.

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Source: Traditional Chinese proverb, widely used in Singapore's Chinese community, public-domain oral tradition shared with the broader Chinese-speaking world

路遥知马力，日久见人心

“A long road tests a horse's strength; a long time reveals a person's heart.”

True character and loyalty are only revealed through time and hardship, not first impressions.

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Source: Traditional Chinese proverb, widely used in Singapore's Chinese community, public-domain oral tradition shared with the broader Chinese-speaking world

种瓜得瓜，种豆得豆

“Plant melons and reap melons, plant beans and reap beans.”

Every action brings about a corresponding consequence; a person reaps what they sow.

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Source: Traditional Chinese proverb, widely used in Singapore's Chinese community, public-domain oral tradition shared with the broader Chinese-speaking world

“Talk cock sing song.”

To chat idly or talk nonsense, often used to describe pointless banter rather than serious conversation.

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Source: Singlish colloquial expression, contemporary Singapore vernacular, public-domain popular usage documented in Singlish dictionaries such as the Coxford Singlish Dictionary

“Act blur.”

To pretend not to understand or not to know something, feigning ignorance to avoid responsibility or attention.

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Source: Singlish colloquial expression, contemporary Singapore vernacular, public-domain popular usage documented in Singlish dictionaries such as the Coxford Singlish Dictionary