Mauritania Proverbs (19)

“A stone from the hand of a friend is an apple.”

A gift or hard truth from a friend, however rough it seems, is given in goodwill and should be received as such.

“Before eating, open your mouth.”

Nothing can be accomplished without first taking the basic, obvious step needed to begin.

“One must talk little, and listen a lot.”

Wisdom favors those who listen more than they speak.

“He who has no spoon will burn his hands.”

Without the right tools or preparation, a person suffers avoidable harm.

“A donkey which goes to grow horns returns with its ears cut off.”

Chasing after something beyond one's nature can cost what a person already had.

“Not all the flowers of a tree produce fruit.”

Not every promising beginning or beautiful appearance leads to real, lasting results.

“It is only the water that is spilled; the bowl is not broken.”

A setback is not always a disaster — what is truly lost may be far less than it first appears.

“A cutting word is worse than a bowstring; a cut may heal but the cut of the tongue does not.”

Wounds from cruel words run deeper and last longer than physical injury.

“He who loves money must labor.”

Wealth is earned through effort, not wished into being.

“To manage yourself, use your head; to manage others, use your heart.”

Discipline yourself with reason, but lead and guide others with compassion.

“Too large a morsel chokes the child.”

Taking on more than one can handle, especially too soon, brings harm rather than benefit.

“If you watch your pot, your food will not burn.”

Careful attention prevents avoidable loss or failure.

“Two eyes see better than one.”

Cooperation and multiple perspectives lead to better understanding than acting alone.

“The sheep that wants to grow a long horn must have a strong skull.”

Great ambitions require the strength and capacity to bear their weight.

“He whose clothes are too fine shall go about in rags.”

Excessive pride or extravagance can lead to eventual downfall.

“Before one cooks, one must have the meat.”

Proper preparation and resources must come before any undertaking.

“He who begins a conversation does not foresee the end.”

Words once spoken can lead to consequences no one can fully predict.

“The bigger the head, the bigger the headaches.”

Greater responsibility and status bring greater burdens and worries.

“The tail does not lead the head.”

Proper order matters — those meant to follow should not attempt to lead.