Sjaldan veldur einn þá tveir deila.
“Seldom does one alone cause it, when two quarrel.”
In most conflicts, blame is rarely one-sided; both parties usually contribute.
— Traditional Iceland Wisdom, Iceland
Source: Traditional Iceland proverb, public-domain oral tradition
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