Veistu, ef þú vin átt, þann er þú vel trúir, og vilt þú af honum gott geta, geði skaltu við þann blanda og gjöfum skipta, fara að finna oft.
“If you have a friend you trust well and want good from him, you should blend your mind with his, exchange gifts, and go to see him often.”
Good friendships must be actively maintained through openness, exchange, and regular contact, not left to chance.
— Traditional Iceland Wisdom, Iceland
Source: Hávamál (Poetic Edda), Codex Regius manuscript, 13th-century Iceland — public-domain medieval text
More Proverbs from Iceland
Cattle die, kinsmen die, and you yourself will die; but the good name of a man never dies, if he has earned it well.
A person's reputation and good name outlast wealth, family, and life itself.
Praise the day at evening, a wife when she is cremated, a sword when it is tried, a maiden when she is married, ice when it is crossed, and ale when it has been drunk.
Judge things only by their outcome, not by how they begin or appear.
A house of one's own is better, though it be small; every man is somebody at home.
Owning even a modest home of one's own brings a dignity and independence that nothing else replaces.
No better burden can a man carry on the road than much common sense.
Wisdom and good sense are the most valuable things a person can carry through life.
A man should be moderately wise, never too crafty; the fairest life is led by those who know much, but not too much.
Excessive cleverness invites trouble; balanced, modest wisdom leads to the happiest life.
Fire is best among the sons of men, and the sight of the sun, if a man can keep his health, and live a life free of shame.
The simplest gifts — warmth, light, health, and a clean conscience — matter more than riches.