“Do not give and then take back; do not love and then turn to hate.”
Commitments and affection should be genuine and lasting, not reversed on a whim.
— Traditional Eritrea Wisdom, Eritrea
Source: Traditional Eritrea (Tigrinya) proverb, public-domain oral tradition
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