Eritrea Proverbs (46)

“The beauty of a tree is its leaves; the beauty of a person is patience.”

What truly makes a person admirable is patience, just as leaves are what make a tree beautiful.

“One who does not use proverbs is unintelligent, and one that does not chew the cud is a donkey.”

Skillful use of proverbs is treated as a mark of wisdom and eloquence in speech.

“Time and the dog come without being called.”

Certain things, like time passing, arrive on their own whether or not you summon them.

“It is better to suffer with your own people than to eat porridge by yourself.”

Belonging to a community matters more than private comfort enjoyed alone.

“He who has not fought in battle thinks he knows it all.”

Inexperience often breeds false overconfidence.

“They say it is for the baby, but they eat it themselves.”

A saying that exposes hypocrisy — claiming to act for others while really serving oneself.

“If the insult is not understood, it sounds like a song.”

Words that are not understood lose their power to wound.

“Respect for the rich, starvation for the poor.”

A blunt observation that society often treats people unequally according to their wealth.

“Borrow money from the devil, and forget sleep.”

Debt brings anxiety that follows a person day and night.

“Live your own life, not your neighbor's.”

Focus on shaping your own path rather than measuring yourself against others.

“A long journey begins with a single step.”

Every great undertaking starts with one small, deliberate action.

“A great talker is a great liar.”

Those who talk too much often stretch the truth along the way.

“Everything passes; love remains.”

Material things fade with time, but love endures beyond them.

“Ability is the poor man's wealth.”

Skill and capability are the true riches of those without material wealth.

“Guide the young early, like the treatment of fresh leather.”

Children, like fresh hide, are best shaped and taught while they are still supple.

“Speak the truth, even though death may be near.”

Honesty must be upheld even in the face of grave consequences.

“If a lion shows you its teeth, it does not mean it likes you.”

A friendly appearance does not guarantee good will; outward signs can be misread or deceptive.

“A liar sweats twice as much as an honest person.”

Dishonesty often reveals itself through visible signs of stress and unease.

“When you throw a stone at heaven, it lands back on your own head.”

Wrongdoing eventually returns to harm the one who committed it.

“Do not go into business without thinking it through.”

Careful planning must come before any major undertaking.

“A secret known to one stays hidden; shared between two it wavers; shared among three, it scatters like seed across a field.”

Secrets multiply and spread the more people are told.

“Do not give and then take back; do not love and then turn to hate.”

Commitments and affection should be genuine and lasting, not reversed on a whim.

“Only with a clear aim do you reach your goal.”

Purpose and direction are necessary for real achievement.

“Two trees planted too close together cannot avoid brushing against each other.”

Closeness between people inevitably creates friction now and then.

“The camel keeps marching while the dogs keep barking.”

Persistence carries a person forward, undisturbed by the noise of critics.

“Tomorrow is pregnant, and no one knows what she will give birth to.”

The future is fundamentally unknowable, however much we try to predict it.

“The shine is not always so fine.”

Outward brilliance can hide a lack of real substance underneath.

“A termite grows to maturity even inside dry wood.”

Growth and strength can emerge even from the most barren circumstances.

“An old man who must still carry one load on his head and another in his hand has wasted his youth.”

Irresponsibility in youth leads to a harder, more burdened old age.

“He who chases a chicken often falls, but the chicken still has to keep running.”

Pursuit and struggle weigh differently on each side, yet neither one can simply stop.

“The one chased away with a club comes back, but the one chased away with reason does not.”

Persuasion through reason leaves a more lasting effect than force ever can.

“If a person overeats, he will either vomit or swell.”

Excess of any kind brings its own natural, unavoidable consequences.

“A fly that does not listen to advice usually follows the corpse into the grave.”

Those who ignore repeated warnings often follow the doomed straight to ruin.

“A home without a mother is a desert.”

A mother's presence is what gives a household its warmth and life.

“When spider webs unite, they can tie up a lion.”

Unity among the weak can overcome even the strongest power.

“He who hides his wound also hides his remedy.”

Concealing a problem also conceals any chance of fixing it.

“Do not call the forest that shelters you a jungle.”

Do not speak ill of the place or people that protect and sustain you.

“One who runs alone cannot be outrun.”

Self-reliance can give a kind of advantage that no rival can easily match.

“What an old man can see while seated, a young man cannot see standing.”

Experience and age often perceive more than youthful energy alone.

“Only when you have crossed the river can you say the crocodile has a lump on its snout.”

Do not judge or criticize an experience you have not actually lived through yourself.

“Save your fowl before it stops flapping.”

Act promptly, while there is still a chance, before an opportunity slips away for good.

“A fool is a wise man's ladder.”

Even other people's mistakes can become the steps by which a wise person rises and learns.

“When the bee comes to your house, let her have beer; you may want to visit the bee's house someday.”

Treat visitors and strangers generously, since you may one day depend on their hospitality in return.

“You cannot shave a man's head in his absence.”

Decisions that affect someone should never be made without them being present or consulted.

“Regret, like a tail, comes at the end.”

The consequences of our choices, and the regret that can follow, only reveal themselves afterward.

“A cow gave birth to a fire: she wanted to lick it, but it burned her; she wanted to leave it, but she could not, because it was her own child.”

Parental love and duty persist even when the child brings hardship or pain.