“The way the arrow hits the target is more essential than the way it is shot; the way you listen is more essential than the way you talk.”
Results and understanding matter more than style or performance.
— Traditional Bhutan Wisdom, Bhutan
Source: Traditional Bhutan proverb, public-domain oral tradition
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Don't put an easy tongue in an easy mouth.
A warning against careless, excessive talkativeness — speak thoughtfully rather than freely.
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If the thought is good, your place and path are good; if the thought is bad, your place and path are bad.
A person's inner intentions shape the course and quality of their life.
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The stripes of a tiger are on the outside; the stripes of a person are on the inside.
An animal's nature is visible on its skin, but a person's true character is hidden within and only known over time.
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A trustworthy person steals one's heart.
Genuine trustworthiness wins people's affection more surely than any other quality.
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Do not start your worldly life too late; do not start your religious life too early.
Practical duties should be taken up promptly in youth, while spiritual devotion is best approached with the maturity that comes later in life.
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A girl with a dedicated heart and good behaviour is more precious than your own heart.
Loyalty and good character in a loved one are valued above all else.
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