Buruk muka cermin dibelah.
“An ugly face, yet it is the mirror that gets smashed.”
Blaming an external thing for a fault that truly lies within oneself.
— Traditional Brunei Wisdom, Brunei
Source: Traditional Brunei Malay proverb, public-domain oral tradition
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