Umjingi udliwa yinhlitiyo.
“The charm is worn by the heart's own choosing.”
A person chooses whom or what they truly love; the heart decides, not others.
— Traditional Eswatini Wisdom, Eswatini
Source: Traditional Eswatini proverb, public-domain oral tradition
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