Ngoana phakoe se ipolele, motho o motle ha a boleloa ke batho.
“Do not praise yourself; a person is admired when praised by others.”
Boasting about one's own achievements is discouraged; true recognition of good character is confirmed by the community, not by self-praise.
— Traditional Lesotho Wisdom, Lesotho
Source: Traditional Lesotho proverb, public-domain oral tradition
More Proverbs from Lesotho
A person is a person because of other people.
Human identity and worth are formed through relationships and community, not in isolation.
The axe is sharpened on the other side of the river.
Sometimes the tools or help a person needs are found far from home, echoing the long history of Basotho men traveling abroad for migrant work.
Lions that lack unity are chased off by a limping buffalo.
Even the strong can be overcome when they fail to act together; unity multiplies strength.
A child is a child of the whole community.
Raising and protecting children is a shared responsibility, not just the task of the birth parents.
Rain is life.
In a mountainous kingdom that depends on the land, rain sustains crops, cattle, and survival itself — a value echoed in Lesotho's national motto, Khotso, Pula, Nala.
To travel is to see.
Leaving home and experiencing the world broadens understanding and wisdom.