“A friend's words may make you cry, an enemy's words may make you laugh.”
A true friend tells hard truths for your benefit, while an enemy flatters you to your harm.
— Traditional Kazakhstan Wisdom, Kazakhstan
Source: Traditional Kazakhstan proverb, public-domain oral tradition
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A person's identity and spirit are rooted in their homeland; without it, life feels empty.
Knowledge is a treasure that never runs out.
Unlike material wealth, learning and wisdom only grow the more they are used and shared.
He who works without laziness will have a full stomach without begging.
Honest, diligent labor provides for a person's needs; idleness leads to want.
The horse is a man's wings.
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The tongue can split a stone; if not the stone, then the head.
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