“Do not try to make someone hate the one he loves — he will go on loving them, and end up hating only you.”
Attacking a person's loyalty to someone they love rarely works, and it usually turns their resentment back onto you.
— Traditional Gambia Wisdom, Gambia
Source: Traditional Wolof proverb, shared Senegambian oral tradition, public-domain
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