“The iron never takes advice from the hammer.”
Those who are constantly struck down by hardship rarely trust the one causing it, however well-meant the lesson.
— Traditional Congo Wisdom, DR Congo
Source: Traditional Congolese proverb, public-domain oral tradition
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